صمم في : 2012/08/23

الأحد، 7 يوليو 2013
9:46 ص

Sexual relations before marriage

Sex education

Some believe that the call to not have sex until after marriage does not keep pace with the times and
evolve. But there are at least ten scientific reasons for it must keep the sexual relationship is limited to only a man and his wife. Marriage is is a state of permanent partnership between men and women, with the consent of state and religion, society and God.Sexual relationship before marriage leads to excessive after marriage:Unlawful sexual relationship hurt and harm relations between the two people. The sexual relationship requires understanding and restraint and moderate emotions. Even in marriage, this relationship must be governed by the mind النابه balanced, which does not go beyond the passions and excitement is not subject to selfish. The youth must learn how to control their emotions and desires.Pre-marital sexual relationship hinder the growth of mutual participation on other topics:During adolescence Sunni be sexual impulse is greatest. If allowed to take off they will control all of friendships between young men and young women. But the friendships that please her that lasts and lasts without clouding described the reprimand requires the active participation of views and ambition. And to engage in illicit sexual relationship at that age would ruin such a friendship and partnership.Sexual relationship before marriage lead to unwise decisions:Sexual expression may result because the girl received the same to a young man (or vice versa) without having studied all things related to this delivery and gravity. This delivery should be given only to the husband who subject him his wife and recognizes itself in the trust and love. For this reason, it must be stressed the need to keep the sexual relationship in wedlock to be of help to place the lives of the couple to each other in the sacred Association last time of their lives. And the period of courtship only to study the temperament Comrade other and decide whether the person submitting the marriage will decide to deliver the same to his companion or not. If one of the parties discovered that the other party does not suits him or agree printing and inclinations is better to Tfsam of engagement to submit to marry and يتحملا consequences not انسجامهما together. The there fasted marriage cases after only 24 hours of the marriage contract. Therefore, since the young man has sex with a girl (or vice versa) feel that they have surrendered to the girl no longer feel the sanctity of marriage. Others engage in relationships and sexual practices during the period of engagement for the degree with which they feel that they have gone in this thorny path and can not undo dismantling of engagement, even after the knowledge that their marriage may not be successful.Sex before holding the Koran risk:Some may think that it does not harm the Nationality surface Kalmlamsh the expressions and caressing and kissing and spinning during the dating period. They believe that these practices do not harm them as long as the partner has chosen to partner Permanent and they will announce the engagement and marriage and imminent.They believe that there is no difference between pre-marital sex, one day or the day after. But if you skip this limit you will find that there is a big difference between the illegal practice of sex and practice approved by God. Those who did so learned a big difference for by bashing their consciences and their homes dismantled and lack of harmony between husband and wife and so on of things led them to the separation.The marriage ceremony of importance:Some believe that marriage is just a signature on the certificate so cleric and some witnesses. They wonder how to make this work is forbidden signatures before the marriage contract pursuant to an analyst beyond? But the fact that this certificate is not just a piece of paper it has a large value. Who Jazoa in divorce know the importance of testing the marriage certificate. This certificate represents the opinion of the religious institution that belongs to it by the parties and the opinion of the state and the ruling and friends. And children who will be born to the couple, and the marriage ceremony adds to all that security and confidence. The adjustment in the Commonwealth of sexual marriage depends largely on the extent of protection and security felt by each party to the other.Is the fear of pregnancy is the basis of not having sex before marriage?.Should not move away from premarital sex just for fear of pregnancy, except for the pill is the answer to this fear. Not for risk in pregnancy as it is in violation of God's natural law, which governs relations between the sexes. According to statistics, the growing number of people with sexual diseases of AIDS, syphilis and gonorrhea, etc.. All as a result of the sexual relationship before marriage. Do not mean here that these diseases do not exist in married couples. But the prospect and have the largest presence in who have sex with others before marriage. Because these diseases are transmitted from one person to another through sexual intercourse. These statistics may seem unrealistic for you to be infected with these diseases one of your friends or loved ones.Pre-marital sexual relationship breed mistrust:Young person who impressed girl and fucked her soon wake up to himself and see how many wonders of another young man this girl handed same tribal him? And then is that in the eyes of young sweetheart is not much different from the rest of young people who أوقعوها in شراكهم before. The girl also تراودها ideas distrust and suspicion in her boyfriend which Asthuaha and wondering see how much of a girl handed same tribal him? And if he had had sex with other women before marriage what prevents him about it after marriage? These doubts are growing in the minds of those who have sex before marriage and then continue to marry becomes a sexual relationship just a boring routine.Pre-marital sexual relationship is often sick originating motives:There is a young man who wanted to prove his manhood, and the girl who is seeking to buy sufficient to provide emotional body. Others are seeking some excitement motivated by lust. Which يتخاذل the front instinctive desires and emotions is falling prey to adultery. Sexual relationship before marriage brings bad companions and crash real friendships among young people. The mistaken thought he was through sex can keep the other party even married.Experience does not benefit in this area:There is a misconception effect on those who claim to have sex marriages even decide whether they Atlaúmon with each other sexually or not. But this belief is fundamentally wrong. Is sex with a young man will exercise all the girls to see which suits him before you marry her? The mistake which it is located these thinkers Alsagme is believed that sexual harmony must be detected before marriage. This is not a real, فالتوافق and harmony sexual generated in the scope of the holy wedlock that find protection and security under the law and custom, which certifies the relationship legitimacy. Valtkadir fully conscious of the gift of love, these granted us by the Creator is not loving discovered or tested only in the scope of wedlock.Pre-marital sexual relationship impede your ability to enjoy the beauty of that relationship after marriage:The biggest argument in favor of keeping the sexual relationship until after marriage is that that relationship can not discover the full beauty only in marriage In human tests, nothing is deeper and more beautiful than the unit integrated sexual health between husband and wife. In wedlock meet two grew up in different environments did not know each other before and unite in a close relationship and mutual company. This wonderful test basis of giving the entire self to another. The husband does not demand anything for himself, but gives himself. And wife have absolute freedom to provide the same also in the joint and mutual love, without having the slightest doubt that it was forced to something or have exploited. In this relationship the two undertakes loyalty to each other gives each one the same for the other. Under the promise of each party to be free from competition or request any features for himself at the expense of his companion. Premarital sexual practices disturb this relationship after marriage because they rob exercised the ability to enjoy the real beauty and meaning of the High. At the same time, it will rob marry one of the pillars that exist between the two parties and thus weaken the Association of marriage. True believer knows that God meant to be a beautiful marriage and always the life time of providing it. That is why it is right upon us to ask us to refrain from anything that would disturb this close relationship, since it commands us to keep the sexual relationship is limited to marriage.

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